Built, Not Born: The Confidence Blueprint No One Taught You

How to Stop Performing and Start Embodying Confidence as a Woman

When you think about confidence, what comes to mind?Maybe it’s someone who walks into the room and instantly commands attention.Maybe it’s someone who speaks without hesitation.Maybe it’s someone who seems unshakable no matter what life throws at her.

But here’s the truth most women were never taught:Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build.

In this latest podcast episode, I sat down with the incredible Laurence Annez De Taboada to unpack the real confidence blueprint that no one is talking about. This is the conversation I wish every woman had access to years ago.

👉🏻 Watch the full episode here: [https://youtu.be/WZpMBXOKxSs?si=4eN8BZe0ll2sRaE4]

What You’ll Learn: Confidence from the Inside Out

✨ Performing Confidence vs. Embodying ConfidenceSo many women perform confidence—they put on the smile, the power outfit, the to-do list, but inside they still feel unsure. True confidence is embodied—it’s a deep trust in yourself that doesn’t rely on validation or outside achievements.

✨ The Confidence FormulaConfidence isn’t a magical feeling. It’s a muscle. It’s built with daily reps. In this episode, we break down a simple, actionable formula to help you strengthen your self-trust, step by step.

✨ How Confidence Protects You from BurnoutWomen often push themselves to prove they’re enough, which leads straight to burnout. Real confidence shifts your energy from hustle mode to sustainable success, where you can balance doing with being.

✨ Masculine Hustle vs. Feminine FlowMany women live in overdrive—grinding, achieving, and pushing. But confidence thrives when you create space for feminine energy: intuition, creativity, flow, and rest. We talk about what it actually looks like to balance these energies in your day-to-day life.

✨ The Myth of Feeling "Aligned"Here’s a truth bomb: confidence doesn’t always feel good. Growth doesn’t always feel aligned, easy, or flowy—and that’s okay. Building real confidence means moving forward even when it’s uncomfortable.

✨ Morning Routines + Daily HabitsWe share simple morning routines and micro-habits you can use right now to rewire your mindset and boost your confidence from the inside out.

✨ A Powerful EFT Tapping SessionI guide you through an Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping practice to activate confidence on a cellular level. This isn’t just mindset—it’s embodied energy.

Why This Matters for Women Today

Confidence is the foundation for everything:💛 How you speak up💛 How you set boundaries💛 How you go after what you want💛 How you build relationships, businesses, and your dream life

If you’ve been waiting to feel ready or aligned before you start showing up confidently, this episode is for you. It’s time to stop waiting and start building.

🎧 Click here to watch the full episode: [https://youtu.be/WZpMBXOKxSs?si=4eN8BZe0ll2sRaE4]

Your confidence is already within you—it just needs to be activated.

With love + magnetic energy,Sasha Alicia Gary